If there's a special person in your life, you know how important good
communication is. Communication either makes or breaks most
relationships; staying close is vital to keeping the homes fires
burning. Good communication skills are essential, whether you've been
together for two months or 20 years.
You too, can improve your relationship today (yep, right now) by putting into practice some of these tips for improving the communication in your relationship.
BONUS INTERVIEW: Urban Gospel Artist MALICHI on his latest CD "Real Life"
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New Life Pastoral Counseling with Dr. Angela Chester Helping Gen X and Millennials with today's concerns
Rage Spinning in my Mind
Helping my clients deal with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is an ongoing journey. I explain to them before starting my program that it will take time so be patient with themselves, and that everyday may deliver a new experience -- it's OK.
Many times the sessions deal with dreams and flashbacks; things they've seen or are subconsciously remembering. Being able to make heads-or-tales of whats happening in your life is an important step in healing.
You may find this article on PTSD and abandonment via dream interruption to be helpful:
I get stuck on a helicopter during an attack, hanging from a chain
ladder a few feet off the ground – my gear got caught up in the chain
and I cannot go up or down. A Viet Cong soldier in black pajamas is
charging at me with his AK-47 – and the chopper
does not move and I am stuck out in the open – a target... [READ MORE]
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abandonment,
dreams,
military combat,
PTSD,
relationships,
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5 Signs Your Relationship is Over
Things just aren't going
right in your relationship, but you can't put your finger on it? No sure
if you should say something or investigate further?Most relationships will go through their ups and downs, but sometimes the signs are there yelling “point of no return.” Knowing when to fight for your relationship and when to let it go are key to keeping a healthy sense of self.
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Mommy Bloggers Unite To Protect and Inspire Children

As a wife and mother I take the responsibility of taking care of my family seriously. I try to make the most informed decisions I can about the things that matter most to us. As a counselor and coach I'm always sharing information and Kid's Dental Fun is one of those finds.
Their mission statement:
Our Mission is to coordinate FREE Dental Clinics for Children while “Educating” Parents, assisting Top Dentists in each Community based on Christian Principles.
Well after watching this video I knew I needed to share this site with you.
All caring Moms should see ASAP! End Child Abuse & Den-Disease
(Caution - If your Child is watching this with you)
Take a moment to find out more via the website, the Facebook page and my fave platform Twitter. More videos available here.
I hope they continue the great work of helping families -- no little one should ever have to go through this.
#KeepItChristianDMV
Many people ask the question -- can you be a Christian and still have a "good time" or do you just pray all day and study the bible? The answer: All of the above! Yes, Christians study their bible and pray for various reasons, but there's still room to have a social life and still honor your faith. BONUS INTERVIEW: Cynthia Jordan of The Connector Be sure to check out The Connector on Facebook. Want to attend an event visit http://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-christian-social-connector-tickets-17794788692 Twitter: #KeepItChristianDMV SHOW SPONSORED BY: Love Jones 316 on YouTube
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Christian Romance Novels - Talking with author M.A. Malcolm
If you didn't know that Christians could read romance novels be inspired. Author M.A. Malcolm visits with us and shares more about why she writes and what got her started.

What do you do when you are not writing?
The truth is, I hardly ever have the
time to write! I’m the wife of a successful entrepreneur and the mother of a three-year-old
who has an insatiable appetite for all kinds of learning. That alone keeps me
pretty busy! I’m also a certified copy editor with my own freelance service called
Nitpicking with a Purpose, where I work on improving the writing of Christian
authors and others. As if that’s not enough, I’m a part-time college instructor
and administrative service provider. Every few months, I remember that I’m also
a blogger. It’s a lot! There isn’t a lot of sleep in my world.
When did you first start writing and when did you finish your
first book?
The first drafts on my computer date
back to 2010, but I started out on paper — probably somewhere in 2009. In 2013,
I participated in NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) and started over
from scratch using the same outline. I ended up writing over 50,000 words that
month. That version became what is now His
Last Hope, which I finished writing early this year (2015) and published in
July.
How did you choose the genre you write in?
Christian romance is what I read, so
that’s what I feel led to write. I’ve actually been an avid reader since I was
a small child, and I still enjoy reading when I can; I love having an e-reader
app on my phone – I can read just about anywhere. I love reading so much that I
did a master’s degree in Spanish American Literature. Before becoming a
Christian, I used to devour secular romance novels, and after dedicating my
life to the Lord, I was thrilled to discover Christian romance. I’ve read so many
novels that for me, it was the logical choice. I did try writing Christian non-fiction in 2009, but it just didn’t ‘click’
for me. I eventually incorporated the message I wanted to share in that book
into my first novel.
Is anything in your book based on real life experiences or
purely all imagination?
The main plot of His Last Hope is completely fictional. More
than a decade ago, I read a secular novel about an amnesiac who fell for the
detective working on her case, and I remember wishing at the time that the
author had gone in a different direction and included a pregnancy. After
waiting on someone else to write that
book, I decided to try and write it. That part of the story was all my
imagination; however, there is a sub-plot that deals with loss and how
Christians feel when their dreams and expectations are shattered. The sub-plot
was loosely based on an episode in my own life when my husband and I dealt with
two pregnancy losses early in our marriage. I channeled my emotions into the
sub-plot. I took what really happened to us and fictionalized it by adding and
subtracting as I went along. A lot of what the character shares in her journal
is based on my own journal entries from that period. Interestingly, the whole
purpose of writing and publishing the book is to deliver the message of the
sub-plot, not that of the plot.
What project are you working on now?
I’m currently working on a prequel
to my first novel. After my beta readers were given advance copies of His Last Hope, several said they would
like to know the story of the married couple who were the focus of the
sub-plot. It never even occurred to me before then that I might write another
novel, but I found myself wanting to know their story, too. I started writing
it in February 2015, but decided after seven months to scrap it and start
again. That said, I hope to have it ready before the summer of 2016. I also
have two more related ideas I’m toying with. I suspect this year’s NaNoWriMo is
going to be very hectic for me! Readers may end up with a His Last Hope series before too long!
What brought you to write this book?
During my first pregnancy, it was
prophesied that my son would reach people for Christ without opening his mouth.
When he was stillborn, I wondered if the prophecy had died with him. Now I
understand that this book is in fact the fulfillment of that prophecy. If I had
never lost him, I would never have felt led to help others to deal with loss,
and now that the book is “out there,” it really is “reaching people for Christ.” Sadly, I suffered a miscarriage
less than a year after the stillbirth. That was when the idea of writing a book
to help Christians deal with these challenges came to me. I prayed about it,
because I’d never considered writing a book before, and confirmation was swift.
As I mentioned, I tried the non-fiction route, but it wasn’t for me. I didn’t
want to write a novel about pregnancy loss, though, so I decided to merge that
message and the amnesia plot I’d already been thinking about for years. It took
six years, but I’m humbled that since publication, God has allowed the book to
bring a message of hope to the hearts of Christian readers. My first two
children may not have lived in the flesh, but through the novel and the
donation of part proceeds to the maternity ward of the Soddo Christian Hospital
in Ethiopia, so many lives will be impacted by them. I pray that the Lord will
continue to use the book to reach those who need it most.
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About author M.A. Malcolm
M. A. Malcolm still finds it hard to believe that she is a published Christian author. A certified copy editor and college instructor, she has been interested in writing fiction since her childhood. The lonely, blinking cursors surrounded by stark white space, however, convinced her that writing wasn't one of her gifts.
Until she had something she was desperate to say.
In the wake of multiple pregnancy losses early in her marriage, she felt led to write something that would help Christian women to deal with grief. After several failed attempts to translate her thoughts to the pages of a self-help book, she began to write a fictional story line that incorporated some of the painful issues she wanted to address. Soon, it was as if the characters had a life of their own, and she could only accompany them on their journey towards healing and love.
Until she had something she was desperate to say.
In the wake of multiple pregnancy losses early in her marriage, she felt led to write something that would help Christian women to deal with grief. After several failed attempts to translate her thoughts to the pages of a self-help book, she began to write a fictional story line that incorporated some of the painful issues she wanted to address. Soon, it was as if the characters had a life of their own, and she could only accompany them on their journey towards healing and love.
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Check out the LIVE interview on Modern Living with Dr. Angela on October 6, 2015
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Back to School 2015
It's that time of year again - back to school. That's right summer is just about over and it's time to hit the books again. Join us as we talk about making this year the smoothest transition yet.
What is JesuShared.com?
Jesus Shared is a new website
designed to encourage and connect believers and non-believers alike, through
the power of God’s unconditional love and compassion. It exists to prove to the
world that no matter how broken you are or what you’re going through, there
will always be someone to help you through it. Jesus Shared is more than a
website. It’s more than a platform. It’s an outreach meant to bring hurting
people closer to each other, and to the God who loves them.
So how exactly does Jesus Shared
accomplish that goal? The platform actually includes a variety of features that
serve to fulfill the same purpose in many different ways. One of the highlights
of Jesus Shared is the ability to request a prayer. Within a few clicks, anyone
can send their prayer needs
to the staff at Jesus Shared, who then pray as requested and send a blessing both
through e-mail and on their blog. Though the Holy Spirit is all you need to
approach God in prayer, it is always uplifting to know that someone cares
enough to approach God on your behalf.
Another simple feature that goes a
long way is the ability to talk to someone about your problems or concerns.
Sometimes the most compassionate thing someone can do for you in your time of
need is listen. These people don’t know you well enough to have biased opinions
or thoughts about your situation. They are simply there to listen and give
advice that ultimately directs you in the way of the Lord. When you’re hurting,
that’s all you can ever ask for.
Jesus Shared does not only provide
a safe haven for weary souls. It also equips passionate hearts for ministry. It
gives people who care a platform to find people to care for. Whether you desire to counsel others or simply pray for them,
Jesus Shared will never deny you the opportunity to shine the light of Christ
in this dark and lonely world.
In this day and age of incredible
technology, Christians are able to reach out like never before. Jesus Shared
seeks to take a hold of the invaluable resource of the Internet and use it for
the glory of God and the furthering of His Kingdom. The Church cannot thrive
without people who are humble enough to admit their weaknesses and bold enough
to find strength in the name of Jesus. The community at Jesus Shared is full of
both kinds, and there are many who would testify to that.
Jesus Shared’s site verse is Matthew 5:3: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” This entire ministry is living proof that the least of the least are loved by the King and that when we come to Him, together, as equally imperfect human beings, He empowers us. He gives us all that we need to make it in this life and to walk boldly into the next.
Jesus Shared’s site verse is Matthew 5:3: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” This entire ministry is living proof that the least of the least are loved by the King and that when we come to Him, together, as equally imperfect human beings, He empowers us. He gives us all that we need to make it in this life and to walk boldly into the next.
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Christian advice,
compassion,
JesuShared.com,
ministry,
outreach,
prayer,
talk
Building Relationships
Relationship - it's turned into a "four letter word" for some, while others need a label for clarification and comfort. Understanding the importance for proper classification and categorization can help many to see where they need to make adjustments in their lives.
Do you refer to people as your “friend” yet you’ve only known them for 2 weeks? Do you feel that your cubical mate is your friend or as a co-worker?
Join us as we look at what to call the various relationships in our lives.
Do you refer to people as your “friend” yet you’ve only known them for 2 weeks? Do you feel that your cubical mate is your friend or as a co-worker?
Join us as we look at what to call the various relationships in our lives.
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friends,
married,
parents,
relationships
How Did He Know?
How Did He Know? (HDHK) is a revolutionary app that delivers daily, customized tips to help men become better husbands and partners—and reap the rewards that come from happy, fulfilling relationships.
With the HDHK app, men receive daily tips on how they can best meet their wives’ needs. Using a proprietary algorithm and data you supply about your partner and your relationship, HDHK can anticipate your wife’s needs—before she even knows them! Daily, customized tips will help you understand your wife’s monthly changes—physically and emotionally—and provide you with insight to ‘wow’ her each and every day.
Join us as we speak with the founder Derek Tye.
With the HDHK app, men receive daily tips on how they can best meet their wives’ needs. Using a proprietary algorithm and data you supply about your partner and your relationship, HDHK can anticipate your wife’s needs—before she even knows them! Daily, customized tips will help you understand your wife’s monthly changes—physically and emotionally—and provide you with insight to ‘wow’ her each and every day.
Join us as we speak with the founder Derek Tye.
The Headache of Sports Injuries: Dealing with TBI
Join us as we find out what you can do to lessen your chance of injury and/or co-survive your injury.
Filed under:
sports injury,
TBI,
youth sports
Traumatic Brain Injury and PTSD: Wounded Vets
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and traumatic brain injury (TBI) often coexist because brain injuries are often sustained in traumatic experiences. The so-called mild traumatic brain injury has been called one of the wars' signature wounds. The shock waves from roadside bombs can ripple through soldiers' brains, causing damage that sometimes leaves no visible scars but may cause lasting mental and physical harm.
JOIN US as we explore the convergence of post-traumatic stress disorder and mild traumatic brain injury in part 2 of our series.
JOIN US as we explore the convergence of post-traumatic stress disorder and mild traumatic brain injury in part 2 of our series.
Filed under:
mental health,
PTSD,
TBI,
wounded vets
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