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Can Christian Wives Wear Lingerie?

I love providing premarital counseling as a part of the services, it allows me to assist future married couples design a life that is perfect for them. By asking questions they may not have thought of, or asking that extra question that makes then go deeper in conversation, it allows them to learn even more about each other before the "big day."

One question that I've been asked numerous times is - "Can christian wives wear lingerie once they are married?" I happen to think this is a great question.

Unfortunately, many Christian young women confuse scripture - don't cause a man to lust vs. be pleasing to your husband. They forget that once you're married you're "allowed" to be pleasing and alluring to your husband. That you are now joined as one, honored by married.

If your husband wants for you to try something to "spice up" your marriage, trying lingerie can be a great place to start. You simply need to find what you're most comfortable with. Everyone is not ready for total exposure, and others will not want complete coverage. There are many middle ground pieces.

You could also choose a holiday to celebrate with a new wardrobe piece. Many holidays like Saint Patrick's Day, Valentines Day, 4th of July, and even Christmas have something in the window.

So if you would like to explore where your spirit takes you with your husband, talk to him about it, and then let your imagination follow. Have a great time with your spouse and enjoy the union that God has given you.

Black Friday and Cyber Monday Deals: Premarital Counseling

 

PREMARITAL COUNSELING SESSIONS
7 Sessions @ $525

Provides you with seven (7), 60-minute private sessions scheduled at your convenience.
Compare to $875 regular price == that's a savings of $350 or 40% OFF!

Sale ends Cyber Monday @ 11:59pm


Black Friday/Cyber Monday Specials

Black Friday and Cyber Monday Deals

 
Take advantage of Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals!

Deals for 2014 are 25-50% OFF allowing you to get more bang for your buck.
This offer is only available until 11:59pm PT Cyber Monday, so act now!

Once you've purchased your deal don't forget to schedule your appointments:
  • An initial consultation - phone or office
  • Assessment visit (if needed)
  • Scheduled appointments
Who says Black Friday and Cyber Monday have to be for retail items only. Save on counseling now!

OPEN HOUSE - January 2012


New Life Pastoral Counseling would like to extend an invitation to you and all you know to meet our counselor and to see our facility. This will be a great opportunity to learn more about the services we provide and enjoy light refreshments.

New Life Pastoral Counseling, provides Christian counseling for life's transitions and stages.
  • Individual and Couple's therapy
  • Marital & Premarital Counseling
  • Anxiety, Depression and Grief
  • Addictions
  • Women's and African American Issues
  • Spiritual Concerns
  • Anger Management
We look forward to meeting you!


JOIN US!
January 11, 2012 3:00pm - 6:00pm
Register for Open House in Long Beach, CA  on Eventbrite



Don't forget to sign up for a chance to win a $25 gift certificate.

6 Ways Pastoral Counseling Can Help You


Pastoral Counselors are able to help people who are dealing with all kinds of difficulties in their daily lives. They  are distinctly trained to deal with specific issues of spirituality (faith) and religion (theology), as well as psychology, thereby, providing a doubly qualified person. If you have been struggling with issues in your life and contemplating whether or not to see a Christian counselor, here are 6 reasons how New Life Pastoral Counseling can help you.

1. Dealing with Life’s Issues
A typical client calls New Life for an appointment, because he/she is making an attempt to deal with a specific issue they are facing. They wish to make heads-or-tails of a marital problem, depression, anxiety, family issues or even concerns of identity. New Life Pastoral Counseling, deals with all aspects of Life Stages (premarital counseling, divorce, marriage issues and enrichment, etc.), and Life Transitions (depression, loss and grief, identity crisis, etc.).

 2. An Understanding Ear
Although counselors are expected to provide advice and guide clients, a large reason why you seek a counselor is to be heard.  You need someone to listen to what is going on with you; someone to listen without judgment. This is a very valuable and therapeutic part of counseling process and should not be undervalued. If you would appreciate having a caring individual who is willing to listen to what you have to say and how you feel, you will benefit from seeing a counselor at New Life Pastoral Counseling.

3. Social Skills
With much of our world become more virtual in application, many of the issues we deal with involve one’s interactions with others; your communication and/or relationship skills. Learning how to deal with the various personalities of our environment can assist in avoiding many problems in the future.  New Life Pastoral Counseling can help. Learn how to communicate the correct way for each situation.

4. Having a God Focus
Here at New Life Pastoral Counseling, we deal with more than just your mind, but the divine person you were created to be. Pastoral counselors turn to Scripture when assisting a client, not just psychology. They understand that we are created by God and must include a relationship with the Creator in order for our lives to truly be on track.  Therefore, prayer is also an important part of the process. This is not a time to become “preachy” but to have a better understanding of what God has promised for your life.

5. Self Evaluation
When we are dealing with specific issues in our lives, we have a tendency to look around for others to point a finger at. We want to blame others and leave ourselves blameless. Many times this is due to a misguided education growing up. Once you learn to change your self-dialogs through self evaluation, a whole new world can be opened up. At New Life Pastoral Counseling, we know that self talk is important. That having the Word in your heart is a great step in the right direction.

6. Mentor
In some ways a Pastoral Counselor can also serve as a mentor that you can trust and turn to in times of question. A Christian, Life Coach. Here at New Life Pastoral Counseling, we want you empowered, encouraged and thriving.

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