I love providing premarital counseling as a part of the services, it allows me to assist future married couples design a life that is perfect for them. By asking questions they may not have thought of, or asking that extra question that makes then go deeper in conversation, it allows them to learn even more about each other before the "big day."
One question that I've been asked numerous times is - "Can christian wives wear lingerie once they are married?" I happen to think this is a great question.
Unfortunately, many Christian young women confuse scripture - don't cause a man to lust vs. be pleasing to your husband. They forget that once you're married you're "allowed" to be pleasing and alluring to your husband. That you are now joined as one, honored by married.
If your husband wants for you to try something to "spice up" your marriage, trying lingerie can be a great place to start. You simply need to find what you're most comfortable with. Everyone is not ready for total exposure, and others will not want complete coverage. There are many middle ground pieces.
You could also choose a holiday to celebrate with a new wardrobe piece. Many holidays like Saint Patrick's Day, Valentines Day, 4th of July, and even Christmas have something in the window.
So if you would like to explore where your spirit takes you with your husband, talk to him about it, and then let your imagination follow. Have a great time with your spouse and enjoy the union that God has given you.
Life isn't always simple. At times it becomes a scary place and can
become very difficult to maneuver your way through it all. As our
society changes and grows so do our health concerns.
Learning how to
adapt and overcome is possible. Recognizing what it is - that's step
number one.
Join us as we talk about Social Anxiety Disorder - it's symptoms, who it affects and what we can do about it.
Every year after Christmas everyone starts buzzing about New Year’s
resolutions. They want to lose weight, start a new hobby, learn a new
language, make more money – you name it! But how do you go about staying
on target or even creating the list in the first place.
Listen in as we discuss how to create resolutions that are practical
and will be easier to follow through on. Making your 2015 one to
remember.
A New Year - A New You!
International Women's Leadership Association Names Long Beach Counselor for Outstanding Leadership
Dr. Angela Butts Chester was registered in December 2014 as a woman of outstanding leadership in the mental health industry.
PRLog -
Jan. 2, 2015 - LONG BEACH, Calif. -- The
International Women’s Leadership Association announced today that in
recognition of her contribution to her family, her career, and her
community,
Dr. Angela Chester is hereby registered as a woman of
outstanding leadership by declaration of the Executive Committee of The
International Women’s Leadership Association, taking her place among
other prolific women who have earned their place in The IWLA.
“We
live in rapidly changing times and this generation must decide what our
place will be, and how we will affect the future. Each of us has a
purpose and a plan.” says Dr. Chester about leadership.
Dr.
Chester was asked how
New Life Pastoral Counseling plays a part in her
leadership role, “I teach from a holistic mental health approach – to
look at the whole person and the world around them. One must
listen to
past wisdoms,
learn to create and build new paths, all while being
grounded by your faith, giving you
balance. My office is very
interactive with each client. Allowing the client to be involved in
their care - active and not passive - gives them an empowerment boost.
They see that positive self-perpetuating is real and obtainable."
When
asked about having been recognized, “I’m honored to be named a member
of such a wonderful group of ladies and look forward to continuing to
make a difference in the lives of others.”
About The IWLA
Dedicated
to serving women and facilitating their ongoing personal and
professional development, the IWLA encourage women to dream big and
reach far, to empower them to surpass their own expectations as they
support other women to do the same.
About New Life Pastoral Counseling
New
Life Pastoral Counseling in Long Beach, CA., caters to the concerns of
Gen X and Y/Millennials (Born: 1966-1994). Providing personalized care
for marriage and relationships issues, divorce prevention and recovery,
premarital counseling, grief counseling, as well as anxiety and
depression counseling. A place where Starbucks cups are welcomed and a
relaxed atmosphere is encouraged, both Interfaith and Christian clients
are accepted.
We're excited to announce that Season 4 of
Modern Living with Dr. Angela will start on January 13th! Bringing you information on mental health from the Christian perspective with a laid back approach.
Including interviews this season with other Christian entrepreneurs, artists and authors, we've heard your request and have a line up for all to enjoy. So set a reminder and join us January 13th!
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