Now it shall come to pass, if you diligently obey the voice of the Lord your God, to observe carefully all His commandments which I command you today, that the Lord your God will set you high above all nations of the earth. And all the blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, because you obey the voice of the Lord your God: Blessed shall you be in the city, and blessed shall you be in the country. Deuteronomy 28:1-3
Father,
Humble our hearts today so that we will hear You voice. Help us as a nation to obey Your voice in all that we say and do. Continue to bless us, O Lord, and give us a compassionate and giving heart toward those around us. Hold us to a higher calling, that we will carefully observe Your commandments and be a nation under God with liberty and justice for all.
New Life Pastoral Counseling with Dr. Angela Chester Helping Gen X and Millennials with today's concerns
Day 3 (40 day of Prayer - Election)
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made know to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4: 6-7
Father,
The worries of each day are ever around us. Conflicts, both within and without, threatens the peace we so desperately want and seek. Father, we come to You with open hears, seeking Your guidance and being content with all that You have given us as a nation. Guard our hearts, O Lord, so that we will he faithful; to You, and let the peace of Your presence surround us each and every day.
Philippians 4: 6-7
Father,
The worries of each day are ever around us. Conflicts, both within and without, threatens the peace we so desperately want and seek. Father, we come to You with open hears, seeking Your guidance and being content with all that You have given us as a nation. Guard our hearts, O Lord, so that we will he faithful; to You, and let the peace of Your presence surround us each and every day.
Day 2 (40 days of Prayer - Election)
Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know. Jeremiah 33:3
Lord,
You have asked us to call to You, with the promise that You will answer when we do. We humbly seek Your guidance for our nation. Give us wisdom so that we will be a people guided by Your Spirit and filled with Your presence. Help us, O Lord, to honor You in word and deed, that we as a people will have your blessing and favor.
Lord,
You have asked us to call to You, with the promise that You will answer when we do. We humbly seek Your guidance for our nation. Give us wisdom so that we will be a people guided by Your Spirit and filled with Your presence. Help us, O Lord, to honor You in word and deed, that we as a people will have your blessing and favor.
Day 1 (40 Days of Prayer - Election)
If My people who are called by May name will humble themselves,
and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will
hear from heave, and will forgive their sin and heal their land. 2
Chronicles 7:14
Father,
We seek Your sovereign blessing on our nation. Forgive is for our shortcomings and the times when we have failed You. Draw us back to Your love and strengthen us as a nation to serve and honor You in all that we do. May we forever be faithful to the calling that You have given us. We respectfully and humbly give thanks for Your continued blessing. Amen
Father,
We seek Your sovereign blessing on our nation. Forgive is for our shortcomings and the times when we have failed You. Draw us back to Your love and strengthen us as a nation to serve and honor You in all that we do. May we forever be faithful to the calling that You have given us. We respectfully and humbly give thanks for Your continued blessing. Amen
40 Days of Prayer for the Election
Angela Chester Ministries and New Life Pastoral Counseling are joining with many other Christian organizations and ministries calling for 40 Days of Prayer beginning Sept. 28 – Nov. 6 ending just before the election. America is in a very curious geo-political and economic crisis and we must pray for our Country once more.
The election on November 6, 2012 for the office of President is the day of decision for America. Let us take to prayer and action.
Everyday a prayer will be posted. Please feel free to post your own prayer or simply offer an 'amen.'
Bad Choices, Bad Habits
A habit is any action that we have performed so often that it becomes
almost an involuntary response. If we consider this habit to be
undesirable then we may label it a "bad habit." People spend countless
hours and dollars each year attempting to break these bad habits and
often do not have any success. Why? Because there is no magic bullet.
Change is hard work and there is no short cut to achieving it. The steps
a person needs to take, however, can be very simply outlined. To effect
a change in habits, one needs to bring the action back into the realm
of consciousness and regain the ability to make choices.
What's the Payoff?
The first step in breaking a bad habit is to look at why you find this action so compelling. In other words, what's the payoff for doing this seemingly negative thing? Since you've already classified this as a "bad" habit you may be tempted to say there isn't one. But look closer. There is always a payoff. Let's say your bad habit is yelling at your kids. What's in it for you? You let off some steam and feel a little better for the moment. Or you have a bad habit of leaving the dishes unwashed? The payoff could be that you get to spend more time on the Internet!
What's the Trade Off
Next, take a look at the trade off. What is it that you are losing by exercising your habit? This step should be easier. Just think why it is that you consider it a bad habit in the first place. Yelling at your kids is a bad habit because it leaves everybody feeling tense and tears down your children's self-esteem. You are trading a temporary release of tension for the emotional health of your children. Leaving the dishes undone is a bad habit because your kitchen is a smelly mess. To have more Internet time you are trading off having a pleasant living environment. When you look at it that way it doesn't seem like you are making very wise choices, does it? There has to be a better way.
Time to Make a Choice!
Now that you've weighed both sides of the issue--your payoff and your tradeoff--it's time to make a choice. It's no longer an involuntary act because now you know that you are making a choice every time you perform this action. You are choosing what you value more: the payoff or the tradeoff! Each time you start to do whatever the bad habit is now you have to actively choose. Which do you value more? Do you value more the relief you get by yelling at your kids or do you value their emotional well-being? Do you value more having more Internet time or having a pleasant place to live?
Substituting Better Behaviors
The whole reason you formed your habits in the first place is that they filled a need. You had tension that needed relief or you had a desire to surf the Net. As you break the old patterns you still need a way to fulfill these needs. You will be not only making an active choice to not do the old action you will also be making a choice to perform a better, alternative action in its place. Instead of yelling at your kids you might decide to go for a run every time you are feeling tense. Instead of letting dirty dishes pile up you may decide to use paper plates when you are eating alone. What the new habit is that you substitute isn't so important as whether you feel good about the choices you have made. After all, the reason you consider it a bad habit is because it leaves you feeling bad about yourself.
I t's Up to You
By now you should realize that the only way to continue with a bad habit for very long is to sink back into denial of why you are doing it in the first place. Each time you begin to resume your old patterns the thought will pass through your mind that you are trading X for Y each time you perform that action. You will be forced to make a choice, whether good for bad, about continuing your habit. What choices will you make? The one that makes you feel bad about yourself or the one that makes you feel good? It's up to you.
Black Americans and Government Dependency
Kenneth Durden: "Rep. Joe Walsh Is Right About Black Americans & Government Dependency"
| Rep. Joe Walsh |
He continues his commentary: "Democrats know they have the loyalty of Fido when it comes to black people. They need to tap into the largest minority group. If Hispanic/Latino people embrace the notion of 3-jobs-or-whatever-it-takes like black people used to do, then Democrats can offer them little. Make a man a victim, then pretend to be his hero. You have his loyalty."
Communication is one of the most discussed issues that affect couples and families. After reading the above article -- how do you feel? How does truth, communication and openness play a role in this?
Why Christians Go Postal Over Facebook, Jay-Z, Yoga, Avatar, and Culture in General
Many times Counselors forget to go out into the "world" via the internet and see what others are doing. We are so busy that we can inadvertently live in a bubble. I am one of those people who try to get out and see what is going on around me.
With that said, I came across this wonderful article that I would love to share with you. Enjoy!
The big idea of my Post
blog was that Facebook doesn’t cause adultery, people do. Calling for a
boycott of Facebook is not the answer because the issue is the heart.
Even if someone doesn’t commit adultery because of Facebook, if that sin
remains in their heart, they will find another way to act upon it.
Sadly, after the story broke, it was revealed that the pastor protesting
against Facebook was, in fact, guilty of prior adultery, along with his
wife. Of course, their adultery had nothing to do with Facebook,
according to the news reports. So, while I pray for the couple to get beyond whatever may
be troubling their marriage by God’s grace, it simply confirmed my big
idea that sinners are ultimately responsible for sin.
With that said, I came across this wonderful article that I would love to share with you. Enjoy!
Why Christians Go Postal Over Facebook, Jay-Z, Yoga, Avatar, and Culture in General
It was only last week that the Washington Post
asked for my opinion on the New Jersey pastor calling for Christians to
stop using Facebook. Had I known what would erupt this week, I might
have agreed with him.
Facebook, like many technologies and cultural phenomena,
is an opportunity for my heart and the hearts of others you and I
interact with to be revealed and transformed. Funny that this week, a
simple comment I made appreciating the talent of Jay-Z generated
hundreds and hundreds of comments across multiple threads on my Facebook
page. Compare that to nineteen comments on my post regarding a news
article about the Christian who is being raped, beaten, and tortured for
his faith and needs some people to push for his freedom.
Filed under:
christian living,
Facebook,
Jay-Z,
yoga
Modern School: California Seeks to Legislatively Cut Suspensions
Modern School: California Seeks to Legislatively Cut Suspensions: In the 2009-10 academic year there were over 750,000 suspensions in California schools, Kathryn Baron wrote in a piece for Topics in Edu...
Common Types of Anxiety Disorders
Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)
Social anxiety disorder (SAD), also known as social phobia, is an anxiety disorder characterized by intense fear in social situations causing considerable distress and impaired ability to function in at least some part of daily life. Sure, many people get nervous when giving a speech or during an interview, but social anxiety disorder or social phobia is more than just shyness or occasional nerves. SAD is one of the most common mental disorders with up to 13% of the general population experiencing symptoms at some point in their life.
The difference between shyness and SAD relates to the severity and persistence of the symptoms that are experienced. Those who suffer, experience overwhelming anxiety and excessive self-consciousness in everyday social situations. They have an intense fear of being watched and judged by others, making work, school, and other ordinary activities very difficult. Those dealing with SAD, many times realize their fears are excessive or unreasonable, but are unable to overcome them.
If left untreated, this can become severe. In severe cases, social situations are avoided at all costs.
Panic Disorder
Individuals with panic disorder have repeated, unexpected attacks of intense fear accompanied by physical symptoms such as sweating, chest pain, heart palpitations, or a feeling of choking. Sufferers of panic attacks often report a fear or sense of dying, "going crazy," or experiencing a heart attack or "flashing vision," feeling faint or nauseated, a numb sensation throughout the body, heavy breathing (and almost always, hyperventilation), or losing control of themselves. Some people also suffer from tunnel vision, mostly due to blood flow leaving the head to more critical parts of the body in defense. These feelings may provoke a strong urge to escape or flee the place where the attack began (a consequence of the sympathetic "fight-or-flight response").
People who have full-blown, repeated panic attacks can become very disabled by their condition and should seek treatment before they start to avoid places or situations where panic attacks have occurred in the past.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
PTSD is an anxiety disorder that can develop following a traumatic or life-threatening event such as war, the unexpected death of a loved one, rape, assault, a plane crash or a natural disaster. The normal response to any trauma is shock, however, over time these symptoms lessen. With PTSD, you remain in this heightened state of mental shock and symptoms worsen, instead of the normal gradual decrease in symptoms.
Diagnostic symptoms for PTSD include re-experiencing the original trauma through flashbacks or nightmares, avoidance of stimuli associated with the trauma, and increased arousal—such as difficulty falling or staying asleep and anger.
Symptoms of PTSD can be severe and cause significant problems at home, work, or other areas of life. With treatment, PTSD can be dealt with.
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder characterized by intrusive thoughts that produce uneasiness, apprehension, fear, or worry, by repetitive behaviors aimed at reducing the associated anxiety, or by a combination of such obsessions and compulsions. Symptoms of the disorder include excessive washing or cleaning; repeated checking; extreme hoarding; preoccupation with sexual, violent or religious thoughts; aversion to particular numbers; and nervous rituals, such as opening and closing a door a certain number of times before entering or leaving a room.
Individuals with OCD often recognize their obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors as irrational, but still feel unable to resist them. It's normal, on occasion, to double-check if the stove is on, or to be concerned about the well-being of a loved one. But if these thoughts or behaviors become excessive and begin to keep a person from performing the responsibilities necessary to lead a normal life, seeking professional help is recommended.
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) is characterized by excessive, uncontrollable and often irrational worry about everyday things that is disproportionate to the actual source of worry. Individuals typically anticipate disaster, and are overly concerned about matters such as health issues, money, death, family problems, friend problems, relationship problems or work difficulties. This excessive worry often interferes with daily function.
This type of constant anxiety takes a physical toll causing body aches, poor sleep patterns and constant exhaustion.
Social anxiety disorder (SAD), also known as social phobia, is an anxiety disorder characterized by intense fear in social situations causing considerable distress and impaired ability to function in at least some part of daily life. Sure, many people get nervous when giving a speech or during an interview, but social anxiety disorder or social phobia is more than just shyness or occasional nerves. SAD is one of the most common mental disorders with up to 13% of the general population experiencing symptoms at some point in their life.
The difference between shyness and SAD relates to the severity and persistence of the symptoms that are experienced. Those who suffer, experience overwhelming anxiety and excessive self-consciousness in everyday social situations. They have an intense fear of being watched and judged by others, making work, school, and other ordinary activities very difficult. Those dealing with SAD, many times realize their fears are excessive or unreasonable, but are unable to overcome them.
If left untreated, this can become severe. In severe cases, social situations are avoided at all costs.
Panic Disorder
Individuals with panic disorder have repeated, unexpected attacks of intense fear accompanied by physical symptoms such as sweating, chest pain, heart palpitations, or a feeling of choking. Sufferers of panic attacks often report a fear or sense of dying, "going crazy," or experiencing a heart attack or "flashing vision," feeling faint or nauseated, a numb sensation throughout the body, heavy breathing (and almost always, hyperventilation), or losing control of themselves. Some people also suffer from tunnel vision, mostly due to blood flow leaving the head to more critical parts of the body in defense. These feelings may provoke a strong urge to escape or flee the place where the attack began (a consequence of the sympathetic "fight-or-flight response").
People who have full-blown, repeated panic attacks can become very disabled by their condition and should seek treatment before they start to avoid places or situations where panic attacks have occurred in the past.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
PTSD is an anxiety disorder that can develop following a traumatic or life-threatening event such as war, the unexpected death of a loved one, rape, assault, a plane crash or a natural disaster. The normal response to any trauma is shock, however, over time these symptoms lessen. With PTSD, you remain in this heightened state of mental shock and symptoms worsen, instead of the normal gradual decrease in symptoms.
Diagnostic symptoms for PTSD include re-experiencing the original trauma through flashbacks or nightmares, avoidance of stimuli associated with the trauma, and increased arousal—such as difficulty falling or staying asleep and anger.
Symptoms of PTSD can be severe and cause significant problems at home, work, or other areas of life. With treatment, PTSD can be dealt with.
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder characterized by intrusive thoughts that produce uneasiness, apprehension, fear, or worry, by repetitive behaviors aimed at reducing the associated anxiety, or by a combination of such obsessions and compulsions. Symptoms of the disorder include excessive washing or cleaning; repeated checking; extreme hoarding; preoccupation with sexual, violent or religious thoughts; aversion to particular numbers; and nervous rituals, such as opening and closing a door a certain number of times before entering or leaving a room.
Individuals with OCD often recognize their obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors as irrational, but still feel unable to resist them. It's normal, on occasion, to double-check if the stove is on, or to be concerned about the well-being of a loved one. But if these thoughts or behaviors become excessive and begin to keep a person from performing the responsibilities necessary to lead a normal life, seeking professional help is recommended.
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) is characterized by excessive, uncontrollable and often irrational worry about everyday things that is disproportionate to the actual source of worry. Individuals typically anticipate disaster, and are overly concerned about matters such as health issues, money, death, family problems, friend problems, relationship problems or work difficulties. This excessive worry often interferes with daily function.
This type of constant anxiety takes a physical toll causing body aches, poor sleep patterns and constant exhaustion.
What is Anxiety Disorder?
Let’s face it, our society has everyone in a tizzy. We want everything faster, quicker, now and right now! With stress levels so high, more and more cases of anxiety related issues are being diagnosed. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, anxiety disorders affect 40 million Americans yearly. Unlike the anxiety caused by a single stressful event, anxiety disorders last 6 months or more and can get worse if not treated.
So what is anxiety or anxiety disorder?
Anxiety is a normal, natural and sometimes necessary emotion. It’s an adaptive response to stress and danger. Anxiety helps people to cope with a tense situation and can even motivate us to work harder. In some cases, it makes us focus on solving an important problem or coming up with a solution. In general, it helps us manage many challenges in our daily lives.
For some, anxiety can become excessive, irrational and even debilitating. However, when anxiety interferes with our ability to function in daily life it may be due to a medical condition called anxiety disorder. When worries and fears prevent you from living life the way you'd like, or from being in a loving healthy relationship, you should consider contacting a counselor or anxiety therapist for a complete evaluation.
Anxiety Disorder Symptoms
Each person suffering from anxiety disorder has unique symptoms, however a common theme involves excessive anxiety, irrational fear and dread. Examples of anxiety symptoms include:
• Chest pain or Heart Palpitations
• An inability to be still and calm
• Feelings of panic, fear, and nervousness
• Uncontrollable, obsessive thinking
• Repeated thoughts of traumatic events
• Nightmares, problems sleeping
• Excessive sweating or numbness in the hands or feet
• Shortness of breath, hyperventilation
• Dry mouth, Nausea, Dizziness
Before a treatment can be administered, a patient will need to be evaluated by a physician to determine if the symptoms of concern are caused by an anxiety disorder or another medical condition.
If your doctor has diagnosed you with a anxiety disorder and you wish to start counseling, New Life Pastoral Counseling can assist you. Take the first step, by contacting us or scheduling an appointment for a free consultation.
It's never to late to start!
So what is anxiety or anxiety disorder?
Anxiety is a normal, natural and sometimes necessary emotion. It’s an adaptive response to stress and danger. Anxiety helps people to cope with a tense situation and can even motivate us to work harder. In some cases, it makes us focus on solving an important problem or coming up with a solution. In general, it helps us manage many challenges in our daily lives.
For some, anxiety can become excessive, irrational and even debilitating. However, when anxiety interferes with our ability to function in daily life it may be due to a medical condition called anxiety disorder. When worries and fears prevent you from living life the way you'd like, or from being in a loving healthy relationship, you should consider contacting a counselor or anxiety therapist for a complete evaluation.
Anxiety Disorder Symptoms
Each person suffering from anxiety disorder has unique symptoms, however a common theme involves excessive anxiety, irrational fear and dread. Examples of anxiety symptoms include:
• Chest pain or Heart Palpitations
• An inability to be still and calm
• Feelings of panic, fear, and nervousness
• Uncontrollable, obsessive thinking
• Repeated thoughts of traumatic events
• Nightmares, problems sleeping
• Excessive sweating or numbness in the hands or feet
• Shortness of breath, hyperventilation
• Dry mouth, Nausea, Dizziness
Before a treatment can be administered, a patient will need to be evaluated by a physician to determine if the symptoms of concern are caused by an anxiety disorder or another medical condition.
If your doctor has diagnosed you with a anxiety disorder and you wish to start counseling, New Life Pastoral Counseling can assist you. Take the first step, by contacting us or scheduling an appointment for a free consultation.
It's never to late to start!
Religion and Spirituality « FizzNiche Guest Blogger Network
Good News!! We've been added to the FizzNiche Guest Blogger Network.
This great group means, that Rev. Dr. Angela Butts Chester, is available to those who need a quote, article or blog post written on a certain topic. From religious, spiritual, ministry to counseling topics, we've got you covered.
Send an email to counseling@newlifepastoralcounseling.com or media@newlifepastoralcounseling.com to contact Dr. Chester about your project now.
Religion and Spirituality « FizzNiche Guest Blogger Network
This great group means, that Rev. Dr. Angela Butts Chester, is available to those who need a quote, article or blog post written on a certain topic. From religious, spiritual, ministry to counseling topics, we've got you covered.
Send an email to counseling@newlifepastoralcounseling.com or media@newlifepastoralcounseling.com to contact Dr. Chester about your project now.
Religion and Spirituality « FizzNiche Guest Blogger Network
**UPDATE** How To Make Godly Decisions (Class)
Dear Workshop Participant,
Thank you for registering for our upcoming event: How To Make Godly Decisions (Class)
Due to the upcoming event in downtown Long Beach - The Grand Prix - at the same time as our scheduled event, we are forced to reschedule our event. The parking and noise level is not conducive to an event at this time and wish to give our guests the best possible experience.
We apologize for this inconvenience and are extending an individual appointment (free of charge) to every participant to assist with this inconvenience. Our online booking center will assist you with available dates.
Please select a time that works best for you: http://NewLife.Clickbook.net Select Upcoming Events --> How To Make Godly Decisions (Class)
The class WILL NOT be held on this date at the office.
Again, we apologize for the inconvenience and look forward to sharing this events information with you soon.
Events @ New Life
Thank you for registering for our upcoming event: How To Make Godly Decisions (Class)
Due to the upcoming event in downtown Long Beach - The Grand Prix - at the same time as our scheduled event, we are forced to reschedule our event. The parking and noise level is not conducive to an event at this time and wish to give our guests the best possible experience.
We apologize for this inconvenience and are extending an individual appointment (free of charge) to every participant to assist with this inconvenience. Our online booking center will assist you with available dates.
Please select a time that works best for you: http://NewLife.Clickbook.net Select Upcoming Events --> How To Make Godly Decisions (Class)
The class WILL NOT be held on this date at the office.
Again, we apologize for the inconvenience and look forward to sharing this events information with you soon.
Events @ New Life
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